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It's that time of year again.

Well, technically I'm posting this the day after Valentine's day (it's currently 00:30 on the 15th feb so)


It got me thinking anyway.

I've not been the most romantic of people, I suppose - I've had a grand total of 3 relationships. 2 were long distance and pretty much failed out the time things started getting serious. The first one was a horrible mess which involved other people informing me I was dumped. I still don't hold the dumping against her, but her friend shot my confidence down about 20 levels.

The second was strained after a while. I got to visit but I was dumped shortly after.

The third was 5 or 6 years ago now. It was my first "real" relationship - I put real in quotes there as LDRs are just as valid, it was my first where my partner was in local range.

I should have really noticed the red flags, really. We were together just a little over year (I'm talking days after the 1st anniversary he left me) - but it was weirdly distant fr…

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